12 Questions to Ask Them Before Saying “Yes”

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No matter whether you’ve met online, through friends or family, if questions come up and you feel like you don’t already know enough, there are right questions to answer, stop, ask. Huh. Luckily we have figured it out too. Simply ask him to answer the following questions and you will be good to go and arrive at an informed decision.

1. Does he smoke or drink? How much?
Any type of addiction can damage the family structure. A past history of addiction can often lead to relapse. Know where he stands on this.

2. What are her standards for privacy between a couple?
This will tell you if he is a controlling type or a paranoid person. Look for red flags.

3. What are the basic rules he would like to make in the family dynamics after marriage?
This is important if you are career-oriented. It will also tell you how helpful he or she will be to your passion.

4. What are his views on family planning?

This is important for obvious reasons. You both need to be on the same page in this regard. If you want two kids and he wants six or vice versa, it may be time to settle. Besides, what’s the age difference between when he really wants to have kids and his favorite kids?

5. What are his views on financial responsibility?
It really is a no brainer.

6. What are his plans if he loses his current job?
Financial security is very important for a happy family. You need to know if he is visionary and ready for obstacles.

7. How does he manage his money?

This goes along with the previous one because long-term financial planning is the key to a healthy, successful, happy family.

8. What does he think about the way his father treated his mother?
This will respond to the possible treatment you receive from him once the marriage begins.

9. What are his thoughts on the role of a man in the household?
If their ideal doesn’t match yours in this regard, you may want to reconsider the offer otherwise you are in for never-ending disappointments.

10. How does he define domestic violence?
This is a very important question. His definition will define how secure you will be around him. Pay attention to his answer.

11. If he is in touch with any of his ex or female friend? What is the nature of the relationship?
The answer to this question lies in his tendency to cheat in the future. They are encouraged to read between the lines and standard rules for lie detection are to be applied.

12. Who are his best friends and what do they do for a living?
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A man is known by the company he keeps. If his closest friends are unemployed, stay-at-home players, then there is a good chance that he is inclined towards such things too. If he makes friends with some laid-back or serious professional people, he’ll probably be fine too.

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